I had an amazing time in my Stress Management class. I learned so many things. I
learned that it is important to control stress. I also learned that controlling stress is
important and beneficiary. It was just an eye-opening experience.
I believe almost everyone if not everyone in the world could gain some knowledge
or benefit from taking this class. Relaxing and learning about stress, who wouldn’t
benefit from it? I am serious! I certainly did! The breathing exercises are relaxing and
almost hypnotizing. I did not have to worry about a bunch of homework, which is also
very relaxing and nice.
One of themes of the class to me was not blowing experiences, actions or
responsibilities and disappointments out of proportion. The idea is to deal, but mot dwell.
One can even dwell too much on a death of a loved one too much. Everyone grieves at
different rates, nevertheless this grieving can get out of hand. I have lost a brother and a
sister and I believe it is very possible to do this.
Sometimes people have the belief that after a loss of a loved one or idol or
someone else that the world is over. It is not. Neither is their life, which people also tend
to believe. I know I thought after the loss of my brother that I would never be happy
again. That was a lie.
Some of my class mates and friends and family accept the theory that they have
no control over their emotions, their achievements and life. Those are some of the most
deceptive and yet somehow easy to believe lies out there in the world. I have learned in
this class how to decipher which are important or not, in or out of control and urgent or
not urgent experiences and actions.
If people would just believe the truth instead of the lies. Others just need to stop
being so lazy and realize what is important and urgent. I guess some people just cannot
comprehend the difference or just deny the facts of life. This class has helped me
understand that life is hard, but we can make a big impact on other people if we decide
we want to. I want other people to realize that they are capable of that scary word called
change. It is not always as hard as it seems. Once one has support and someone’s who
truly believes in them, one can definitely make a huge alteration to this world around
them and also to their own lives and lives of others.